Last Saturday I met that girl and we were dating since then. Yesterday it was our third date and we already were sending naughty messages the day before.
She is very open minded and I am very anxious in some aspects in life as dating. I’ve told her that I am very nervous since we met to let her know my feelings. She is a very caring and a wonderful girl in every aspect.
Normally I had the urge to pleasure myself at least once a day, before I met her. Now I do not even get random hard-ons anymore or when I look at hot girls or think about naughty things.
I think it comes from my permanent anxiety or nervousness when I have to think about her, it almost even keeps me awake at night.
So yesterday we made out and it was great but I felt no arousal. And half an hour later we were undressing and wanted to f but I could not get it up, it was absolutely impossible. I felt so destroyed and so ashamed of myself.
She said it is no big deal but I saw it in her eyes that she was a bit disappointed…
What is wrong with me and how can I lose this anxiety. I really like her and I have probably never met a girl that is so perfect in any way. I really do not want to miss the opportunity to get this to a relationship, if this will happen again…
I am thinking about using Viagra the next time, but I never used it. Just in case I will have the same problem again.
Is there anyone who can relate to and share their experience or does anyone have some ideas how to fix my mind and my situation.