I haven’t met my ex in about 6 years and honestly I’m quite relieved. I’d thought at the time we’d see each other more often as we were going to the same course in uni and I guess working in the same sector, but thankfully I haven’t seen her since.
She cheated on me with some guy she met on tinder, and it continued until one of her friends told me about it. I found out later that the friend was also sleeping with the guy and she just wanted him for herself.
The guy was in NS at the time and I was waiting to enlist. So ironic that this was pretty much a reversal of whatever usually happens in the stereotypes.
I only found out because someone else wanted to sleep with him. I couldn’t sleep that night and that next day I asked to meet her. Surprisingly she asked to break up with me the first thing she said. Apparently I wasn’t good enough for her in various aspects and she even said that I was “too small” for her. She said that I was “lame” and unlike her new guy who’s like fit and has a cool role in the army as a medic my clerk job was embarrassing but like who even says that? Isn’t that just looking for any excuse to break up?
I heard she continued sleeping with the guy for a while up till about midway through uni. I haven’t dated since. It was hard enough to get a girlfriend the first time and honestly I don’t have much faith in it anymore.
Life’s a B.
Here are what netizens think:
- I am sorry to hear what happened to you. I work on cars for a living, Sometimes the size doesn’t matter, but a 6.3 liter AMG is an unforgettable ride. Some are 3.8 v6 twin turbo that murders the life out of a 6.3 na.. so size doesn’t really matter, just up your turbo size, if a 2.0 fitted with a big enough turbo, anything is possible.. then there are the 1.4 non turbo cars.. just need to find the right driver for any of the cars.. if you once drive a 2.0 turbo and suddenly you drive a 1.4, do you think you will miss the 2.0 once awhile?
- Dating is a process of developing familiarity as a means of gauging if the other party would make a suitable life partner. In your case, this process culminated in the exit of a cruel and spiteful cheater from your life. Isn’t that a good thing?
- Everything is relative.What is small for a volcanic opening, is perfect for a container of spice.