Walao eh, nowadays some Singapore women really jialat leh. Always say they independent, can earn money, got career. Can earn so what? Then hor, cannot cook, cannot clean, don’t want to contribute anything at home — this one not partner leh, this one more like another mouth to feed.
We not asking for maid okay. Don’t twist words. But basic human decency leh — you adult already, cannot even take care of yourself properly, still want to talk about taking care of husband? Please lah. Some more keep saying “I don’t need man,” but every month still want guy to pay for dates, drive her around, buy things, plan everything. Got effort from her side or not?
Just Work Only, Then Feel Like Got Gold Medal
Nowadays some girls really think they work = mission accomplished. But excuse me hor, the guy also work what. He work and still expected to do everything else — pay bills, do housework, drive, even settle her nonsense when she throw tantrum. She work a bit then say tired, say “I got my own money, I no need man.” But hor, when bill come, she suddenly become very soft, wait for guy to take wallet out.
Then you look at their home — messy like pasar malam, laundry mountain high, fridge empty. Some even don’t know how to boil egg. Like that want to start family? Cannot even take care of yourself, how to take care of children or husband?
Want Equality But Only For Easy Part
They shout “equality” very loud when it’s about career or rights, but when come to responsibility, wah quiet until can hear pin drop. Ask to clean toilet, she say “not my job.” Ask to cook once a week, she say “I don’t like cooking.” But want man to change lightbulb, fix sink, carry groceries, settle everything. Equality your head lah — this is selective equality, only pick what you like.
Got one guy complain online, his girlfriend scold him for not planning Valentine’s Day, but she also never do anything for his birthday. Then when he upset, she say, “You’re a man, don’t be so emotional.” Wah like that double standard until peng san sia.
Basic human survival skill also dont have
At the end of the day, we not saying women must stay at home, wear apron and cook soup every day. No need lah. But basic adult skills like cleaning your own space, cooking your own food, knowing how to budget — that’s just being a responsible human being, not gender role. You don’t bring anything to the relationship, then still demand everything — fair meh?
Singapore guys not expecting to marry housekeeper. We just want someone who knows how to pull her own weight, not just financially, but also emotionally, mentally and yes, domestically. Relationship is teamwork, not one person carry all the load while the other one shake leg and act queen.
If you can’t even help with the basics, then don’t ask for a king when you’re not even acting like a decent partner. Simple as that.
No wonder now so many marry foreigner, cause really they bringing nothing to the table.