How to ask wife to go Korea for “upgrading”?
Actually damn heng, I thought I was the only one with this problem. I really need some perspective from the brothers (and sisters) here.
My wife and I have been married for quite a while already. After she gave birth, her body really take a hit. I know, I know—it’s the “sacrifice” of motherhood and I should be grateful. I’m not saying I don’t appreciate her, but the physical attraction is just… gone. Specifically, the “papayas” are really sagging like crazy now.
It’s reached a point where I find myself rejecting her advances because I just cannot feel the “vibe” anymore. Every time I see the sagging, I just feel sian. I want to be a good husband, but you cannot force the engine to start if there’s no fuel, right?
I’ve been thinking of asking her to go South Korea with me for a “full body upgrade”—lift, augmentation, maybe some touch-ups here and there. I’m willing to sponsor the whole plastic surgery or treatment, top-tier clinic, business class flights, everything.
The problem is: How to start the topic?
If I say it too direct, she will definitely blow up and say I don’t love her for who she is. If I don’t say anything, our “activity” in the bedroom will stay at zero and eventually our marriage will also GG.
Any guys here successfully “convinced” your wife to do work? Or any ladies can tell me how to bring this up without making her feel like a piece of meat or making her cry for three days?
TL;DR: Wife’s body sagging after kids, I lost interest. Want to pay for her to go Korea for plastic surgery but scared she will take it the wrong way. Help a brother out.