My (19M) girlfriend (18F) keeps making fun of my size
To preface, I’ve never once in my life been insecure about it. I’ve always had the idea that you have what you have and you learn to work with it.
That being said, my girlfriend is my first partner. We’ve been together for about a year with some issues, but nothing too serious that we’ve failed to overcome. We click and we’re great in bed all the time. Round after round and she always finishes.
My girlfriend has thrown a joke out every now and then about my size but they’ve always been a little funny and I can just laugh it off.
A few months ago, she saw it soft (oh no!) and she started making jokes about it being tiny or whatever and I really didn’t mind.
I mean of course it’s… what did you expect? A whole elephant nose in my pants all the damn time? Grow up.
The last few times I’ve seen her though, she’s been making continuous jokes about my…. “It’s so cute and tiny” or “Are you gonna get one of those surgeries in the future? Add a few inches I can barely feel it sometimes”
She’s been doing this constantly the last few days and today she just kept going and going to the point that it’s beginning to hurt my self image.
She does this with other things like my acne when it used to flare up or thinning spots in my hair (It’s so funny that you’re balding at 19) but never this much.
I just don’t understand why she does this when I treat with nothing but respect and never make fun of her especially not for things that are out of her control. It’s just taken a toll on me to the point that I’m starting to dread being with her at all.