Hello guys. I am posting this up not only to create awareness but also because it’s easier to explain to everyone now than for each concerned Friend to ask me one by one when they see me from now till (I recover).
What happened: I was at a club (and I haven’t been to one in ages) because it was a special event night of oldies. My friends and I jostled through the happy crowd to the middle of the dance floor, just like every other party goer.
Three women who were already there didn’t like the fact that we were beside them. However we didn’t intrude their space Nor pushed them at all. I am the one standing the closest to them.
I was still sober, and I could see the two women making glances at my perpetrator. I think it was an indication to her that “hey u see they wanna try and invade our space” so the perpetrator, I assume a woman in her late 30s-40s started to use her body weight (she’s probably x2.5 of me) to shove me backwards.
I moved to give in at first, but her perpetual shoving (using her ass) became very very aggressive and intentional. And my first thought was “I don’t want trouble.” So I just started to dance, facing my friends and back facing her.
She pushed and pushed. This time her entire body and ass was literally trying to mow me flat. I stood my ground because I have no more space anymore and she has a fk ton of space in front of her. She just wanted to pick on me.
When she realised I’m not gonna budge anymore (When I have already moved at least 3 strides to accommodate her shoving, making my friends all squashed) she turned around, facing me. I immediately felt her weight gone from my body and thus turned around too.
I thought she was going to confront me like yell at me or challenge me by scolding some vulgarities but no. She immediately lunged for my head, but I Guess she missed and thus left all these wounds on my cheeks instead. She grabbed me forcibly by my arms again right after that Attack.
I did not move, knowing that I am 1. Unable to defend myself Nor “win” her in a man fight 2. Do not want to be in trouble by hitting her back.
So I did nothing. I just stared at her in shock. I could feel pain and blood on my face. Her friends immediately tried to restrain her and my friends came to surround me after realising what happened since it all happened so fast. She lunged at all the girls around me, and taunted my sister’s Boyfriend. She left scratches on another girl and pushed another one off balance.
I went to the bouncer- my Friend managed to locate the woman, got choked by her in the process. Police was involved. She was LAUGHING and smiling, eyeing me from a distance, thinking about what a loser I am and how she’s gonna just walk away.
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However as y’all know just how unfair the world is. I am unable to pursue this incident because I know these are “superficial” wounds that don’t warrant much of a case. And my dad ain’t bill gates.
So I can only avoid the mirrors now, and just cry to myself silently. And for my friends, you guys know I do events and my “appearance” is my rice bowl, my livelihood.
Just want to let u girls know, please look out for each other and be very careful, “do nothing also can kena if u are suay”
So yes. She’s probably going to walk away free from charges because her victim is unable to afford it. And she will do it to someone else again.
I abided the law yes, I did nothing wrong yes. But what good is there in being right if you need to pay to reinforce it?
Mine is a trivial case compared to those who murdered, raped, bullied, cheated those weaker than them.. and most being able to just.. get away. Not even a sorry. Not even remorse.
Please feel free to share the post. This is the sad reality of life. 
Source: Voir Valeisky