A Singaporean who was recently married shared her story on Facebook on how she recently fell in love with her father-in-law. She stated that her husband was working overtime for some time now and her father-in-law would join her for dinner.
Here is her story.
Mine is a complicated story. I’m newly married, for less than a year. We live the typical newly wed life. His parents are divorced and his dad lives by himself. We would visit his dad and mum separately each week. His dad is fifty plus, looks after himself well and looks young for his age. Unlike my parents, his dad is happily retired (made his money from stocks).
Now you would think, how come I’m talking so much about his dad right? This a question I been asking myself too. I mean, I shouldn’t be thinking so much about him. Right?
Since office work restarted, my husband’s been pulling late nights due to backlog from past few months. So I been eating dinner by myself, and sometimes his dad will come up to eat with me. I guess to him since his son can’t keep his wife company as a FIL he has a duty as well?
Anyway I got to know him better through these evenings. How he went to America to try competitive bike racing when young (wow didn’t know he had such a history). Dated angmoh women. And gasp! Shared something which he said nobody knew. He actually made an angmoh girl pregnant and they had to abort. Guess he trusts me to say all these? Came back to spore, met his wife and settled down. Guess he’s really good at stocks because he could rattle off all the different stock names which I couldn’t catch. Not a stock person myself.
He had a certain charisma I must say. And I find myself a bit attracted to him. I’m not a conversationalist and he’s got a dry sense of humor which can make a laugh….in fact he makes me laugh more than his son. When I compare father and son its like, hey, the older one is actually more interesting. How come I never noticed?
Now I do love my husband but I cannot control the flutter in my heart whenever his dad comes over for dinner. Recently I learnt how to cook the kind of dishes he likes, although I declare its meant for both men. A part of me wishes that my husband will continue to OT, so that he can still come by in the evenings. He drives a cool car btw.
That aside, sex with my husband has been so so I guess? He’s my first physical partner so I cannot compare I guess, but its like its not as pleasurable as I read in the mags. Besides we don’t do it often cos he’s so busy with work. I know its bad to say this but his dad actually looks like the one who’s better in bed. I sometimes find myself wondering what its like to do it with him.