A girl has shared his thoughts about her boyfriend on NUSWhisper Facebook page. In her post, she mentioned that her boyfriend is a lazy person who is never on time and likes to delay things.
The only thing he does is go to work and go back home to sleep. To make thing worse, the friends he hangs out with are alcoholic and took drugs too. His bunch of friends thinks that it is alright to cheat on their girlfriends.
She then indicates that she is starting to lose faith in the relationship and seek netizen advise on what should she do?
In Her Post:
“Hi NUSWhispers, I have sent in a post in the morning and I wished for it to be removed. I felt that it was unfair towards my boyfriend since I have only said the bad side about him and there were issues in the post that I do not wish to be implicated in. Thank you for your understanding. ” #92499: I’ve (21F) been dating my boyfriend (22M) for a little over a year and recently I’ve been getting angry at him for the smallest thing.
I’m starting to see many flaws in him and I’m always nagging at him every other day. He’s a very lazy person and he takes really long to get something done because he just keeps delaying it. He has no sense of punctuality whereby he can be late for an appointment that is only 5 mins away from his house.
All he does is goes to work, come back and sleep. I’ve been nagging at him regarding the same issue for countless of times and every single time, he’ll just say he’ll change. But it happens again. And there are times where he will get annoyed by my nagging. It doesn’t help that the friends he hangs out with are people who take drugs, have no sense of control over their alcohol consumption, no sense of integrity who thinks cheating on their girlfriends isn’t wrong. (I’ve been trying to accept the fact that he has friends like this but its hard.)
I love him a lot and he’s someone I want to marry and start a family with but I’m afraid that he’ll still continue being an irresponsible and lazy person. I’m starting to lose faith in our relationship. What should I do?”
