A man has sought advice from netizens on how to interact with girls on NUSWhisper Facebook group.
According to him, he has low self-esteem and he feels that he is fat, ugly and nerdy. He thinks that all girls around him are disgusted by how he portraits himself and often would laugh at him at every chance they get.
He often envies those people who have companionship and he craves for someone to be by his side. He even mentioned that he is desperate but will not go to Geylang to release his sexual needs due to self-respect.
However, he said that he will feel sorry for girls that liked him as he always thinking that he is not good enough.
In his post:
“How do you approach a girl? I’m a male CS student, and I accidentally embodied almost all stereotypes of a typical Computing student – anti-social, fat, ugly, nerdy, socially-awkward, and a borderline incel/simp in appearance. Do note this is unintentional and I have no such incel/simp traits.
I have no idea how to talk to a girl, or to ask someone I know out. As a matter of fact, I think all the girls around me are disgusted with me or make fun of me every single way possible. I have severely low self-esteem and almost no self-worth about myself. Seeing people walking around holding their girlfriend’s hand and I loathe myself for not being handsome or likable as a person. This, combined with the insane workload of my course has taken a toll on my mental health. I never realize how much I crave for intimacy and acceptance.
And no, I’m not the kind of person to come to Geylang and release my sexual urge. I’m desperate but I still have some self-respect to myself. No offence to anyone.
How do I get to know a girl or possibly a girlfriend? Especially if I’m as described above? To be honest, if a girl actually likes me, I would feel sorry for her as a person. That’s how low I am. But then, I’m desperate and beyond-reparable, and I really want to have a girlfriend 🙁 I know how contradicting I am, yes.“
