A future bride recently stated on a Facebook post on how she was unhappy that her parents want to invite many people and she was afraid that all these people would end up drunk and destroy her dream wedding.
Here is the full story.
Need some advice on how to convince my parents and grandparents that i don’t want to invite SOOOOOO many people to my wedding. I just want an intimate, cosy, internal-family only gathering/dinner for my wedding. I dislike the limelight, i don’t want to have an extravagant event, eg: me walking in with an expensive gown + speech etc.
I don’t need that and i don’t want that at all. My parents say that it’s a once in a lifetime thing and i shouldn’t tou tou mo mo. My grandparents wants to invite their brother, sisters and friends to my wedding for the ‘face’.
I don’t know them, i’m not close with them. And i surely do not want them to get drunk at my wedding and wreck havoc like some of the weddings i’ve been to last time. I’m really uncomfortable. I have yet to speak to my fiancé regarding this but i will soon when i settle this on my side. I really don’t know what to do. It’s suppose to be my night, but if i would to heed my grandparents’ wishes, i will be unhappy for sure, i won’t be enjoying my night anymore.
Anyone with similar experiences, pls comment and send your dear sister some help! Thank you!