How do you deal with a bf who still goes out with another girl?
I realized my bf have been going out with a girl often for meals without telling me unless I ask. He said it’s because she has no friends and she asked him out so he said yes. I’ve casually brought up that I noticed that she may like him and he agrees.
He said that she has hinted at him before. When I asked if she knows that he’s attached, he said she has seen our Instagram stories of our selfies together so she should know he’s attached. I asked if he’s ever mentioned to her that he’s attached and he said no. I don’t really feel comfortable with this.
I’ve told him about this but the conversation was just awkward and uncomfortable.
He just said there’s nothing between them. I don’t think he’s the kind that would cheat, but I feel that he’s keeping a backup. There’s really no point asking further as even if it’s true he’ll never admit it. At the same, I don’t want to overly restrict him. I understand that it’s ok for him to still have female friends and go out with them. It’s just this one female friend that is making me uneasy.
I don’t know what I can do or how I can approach him. Should I trust that he’ll be loyal and prevent souring this relationship with my jealousy and insecurity? How can I tactfully approach this situation without risking making us uncomfortable?