A story was shared online after a woman was shocked that a guy who seems to be quiet and nerdy was able to drive his car like a racer.
Here is the story:
Met a guy thru a friend, been on a few dates, yesterday after the date, I agreed to let him send me home in his car for the first time cos he was likeable and I think I am ok to move the relationship along. Here comes the BUT.
But the ride home was a bit shocking. I didn’t not expect him to be a racer based on his demeanour. I also have a driver’s license and I am the kind who is OK with driving 20 over the speed limit. But this is the first time I sit in a car going 140 – 160, changing lane from 1st to 4th and back to overtake cars in the first lane, changing lanes and overtaking in the spirals out and into the highway.
He also makes it look very casual and was doing it all one handed and talking to me at the same time while I’m like trying to play it cool. So it seems like he does this often and not trying to impress me. I think he noticed cos he asked if Im OK after we arrived at my place.
So I told him I was not ok, that he was driving very recklessly. He apologies and assured me that he signaled and checked blindspot everytime and it was very safe. Then I told him even so I was not comfortable with it. He apologise again and said he will watch out next time.
Now I’m thinking is his demeanour a facade? Cos on dates, he gives me the safe, polite, funny, and respectful nerdy feel, but his driving style signals to me that his risk appetite is big and dangerous. And I asked my friend who recommended to me this guy to do some digging and from what I heard he really is just a nerdy fun guy.
But it still seems to me he is hiding his true nature.
Singapore law on speeding
Is it worth it to risk your live and the person you like to speed?