There are many different kinds of die-hard fans but there are some that go in so deep that it becomes toxic. A man shared a story of his girlfriend’s crazy addiction that he finally breaks off with her.
Here is the story:
Hi, I’m 25 years old this year and I have a 24-year-old girlfriend. I’m seeking advice on how to get back my money after she borrows money from me to buy her K-POP stuff.
We were together for 6 months and she shared her K-POP religion as if it’s a cult we cannot have a conversation without K-POP(every 5 sentences got one sentence she will associate or start the topic of K-POP) and whenever I’m out with her she is only shopping in those mini shops that sell fan merchandise.
She has like 50 over keychains with photos of different K-pop stars and many other merchandises like photos, cards, posters, figurines, CDs and a lot of garbage that is piling up in her room. She told me that she swapped her credit card to buy all these and was unable to pay them back. The bank has been sending her letters and demanding payment of over $10,000!!!
Even though she is in debt I tried to be a supportive boyfriend and tell her to cut down on her shopping. She told me that she is addicted to them and can’t stop.
She came to me saying that payday is not here and needed $400 to survive. I doubt it but got soft-hearted as she has been bugging me non-stop, feels like I’m forced into lending her the money. I treat the $400 as her last chance and decided to trust her one last time.
But end up I found new merchandise in her room. I confronted her and she admitted that she used the money I gave her to buy the merchandise. In a surge of fury, I threw all her stuff out the window.
She began crying and begging me not to touch them as they are more important than me. I was like wtf.
I leave her home straight and never saw her again. Till now I hope I can get my money back but I treat it as a lesson learned.