A woman shared her story after she found out where all the earnings of her husband went to and it has been a secret for over 5 years. Usually the
Here is the story:
I have been married for over 5 years and know him for more than 7 years but only till recently found out a weird hobby of my husband, a bill arrived at our home yesterday and it was of a storage unit.
I asked my husband what was he storing, he told me some toy cars and some garbage comics he kept over the years and I did not probe further as it sounds very normal.
But my friend sends me a screenshot a week later of my husband’s Facebook profile and the screenshot was my husband offering to buy a barbie doll from the Facebook marketplace. I was a bit shocked as we only have 1 son and no daughters. I keep quiet thinking maybe it’s for me?
After a week, I decided to ask him. He denied it at first then I questioned if he has a woman outside or does he have any children outside. Suddenly a lot of things make sense to me, my husband always doesn’t have spare money to spend and always appears to be poor. He must be having a woman outside right? I was so wrong.
I kept asking till he gave in and said the doll was for himself, Initially, I did not believe him but he drove me to his storage locker and I finally realised that he was speaking the truth. There were hundreds and hundreds of Barbie dolls inside and I asked him why is he keeping them, he said that he always find them interesting and said that there is resale value to earn them.
Then I asked him, how much have he earned so far, he said none. When I ask why he did not tell me, he said it is embarrassing. Hey if it’s for making money then of course nothing is embarrassing about it. He broke down and said he always love barbie dolls and has been collecting them for a long time.
I told him hey, it’s ok. Women also have boyish hobbies it’s alright. I’m just glad there was no other woman outside. Maybe just some plastic woman, that’s fine and he has been a great husband so far. I felt kind of guilty that I thought that he had a woman outside. I even went shopping with him afterwards and I bought him a new barbie doll.
To all the women out there, don’t judge your husband, be supportive. Think about the good and not focus on the bad. There is no perfect husband or wife, there is only compromise and understanding.