I recently ran across my fiancées’s location via Snapchat while I was looking for something else on the map and found her at her co-worker’s house.
Long story short I told her I didn’t want her giving him rides anymore as I suspect he would take advantage of her character and use her as a chauffeur. I messaged her just to tell her I was thinking about her and asked what she was up to. She said she was watching a movie and didn’t include any other details. I asked her to take food from the freezer to thaw. As soon as I messaged her she disappeared from the snap map and didn’t come home for another hour or so. When I got home she never took the food from the freezer and said she forgot to even though she in the kitchen.
Which I knew she was lying because I had seen her on snap map moments before and the security camera in the driveway showed no cars in the driveway.
I know she lied to me. I want to give her the benefit of doubt, but what are the different thoughts of you guys here?
She’s secretly met up with other guys before, and intentionally omitted details about stories without knowing I knew the actual story. I wonder if she’s cheating, or trying to save the awkward conversation in fear that I would be jealous. She’s also been very affectionate towards me the following days and I wonder if she’s trying to make herself feel better for what she may have done.
Here are what netizens said:
- Look…she lied to you. Period. As they say, “If it walks like a duck and sounds like a duck, it probably is a duck”
- Right now the only way you might know is to confront her and her what you before things get out of hand and your relationship erodes. Could be either or at this time. But either way she needs to take some giant steps backwards and she respect for her relationship with you because of the way you’re uncomfortable with what she doing and she knows it