I am currently a 2nd yr undergrad in a local university (non-NUS) and occasionally dip into the sugaring scene for extra pocket money.
Recently on one of the sugaring sites, a guy messaged me and the vibe was quite good so I agreed to meet him for a date to see if we can hit it off. My heart was palpitating a bit when he arrived in a lambo to pick me at my block and he whisked me off to a nice michelin star restaurant.
In terms of looks, he is about average but we got along quite well and had a nice time. He said he was a trader and was very comfortable moneywise but not looking for any commitment which was great as I am still studying and don’t want anything serious. After that night, I thought he would make a proposition for an arrangement but there was no contact from him for almost a week.
Suddenly, he popped up again on tele and asked me out for another date. The same thing happened again and in total we went for 4 dates. It was a sense of deja vu as the dates went well but never got intimate. On the last date tho’, we were at a scenic restaurant looking at the Marina bay view when he came up from behind, hugged me and kissed me. He looked into my eyes and said he loved me but we never progressed beyond that. He sent me back after and that was the end.
The next day, I msg him to thank him and asked if he was serious about having an arrangement with me but no reply.
Still no reply after a day so I decided to test him. I said that I really liked him and wanted to have sxx with him but he would have to commit to an arrangement with a regular allowance. He finally replied and said that he is game for a ‘trial’ makeout session but he would not compensate me and would make decision about an arrangement after that. I replied that he told me he loved me and even kissed me.
What more does he need to make up his mind? After that, there was silence from him. I decided then to just block him on tele but a week after that I got a message from him on the sugaring site saying he misses me and wants to discuss further.
Should I give him a chance or is he just taking me for a ride (literally and figuratively) in his lambo?