Alot of people often use their gender as a way to get free stuff and tried to live their life like a cheapo.
Here is the story:
I was drinking with 2 other male friends and one of them brought a girl along. She was just a friend and not his girlfriend.
We had a great night and drank till the standard 10.30 PM when it was time to pay the bills I calculate it so split by four. Then the girl asked why split by 4. I said well 4 of us are drinking then split 4 loh.
She thick-skinned said: “I thought i no need pay”
I told her that even if you are on a date with your boyfriend also not always he pay right? She said, “no let my bf always pay everything for me”. Then I quickly replied here, none of us here is your boyfriend what and we barely know you.
She then said: “Im a girl so i no need pay”
She said that it is a female privilege, then I ask her where she learns of such a privilege, she said from countries around the world. Then I answered her
“How about we also use male privilege from around the world and you are currently in India right now, you want to try the privilege?”
She was too dumb to know what I meant, then she asks me to be a gentleman and pay for her, I asked her:” why not you stay at home take care of kids and brush the toilet and cook. “
She then ran away without paying, What a disgrace, Chao ah lian.
We are not cheapo that we cannot afford her share, just that she thinks that she is female and it is her entitlement to get things for free. I have a girlfriend and she always offers to pay for her share.
My gf says: “I’m trying to find a bf and eventually a husband if i keep burn my husband’s money. What kind of woman am I. As a family must share burden”
This is why Im with her for almost 10 years. Unlike this kind of girl who can be “bought” with money.