So me (22f) and my friend (20f) we are hanging out earlier today, just having our usual girls hang out (talking, fat jokes, relationship jokes, dirty jokes, etc.) and the subject of her new boyfriend came up.
Every time she dates someone, she gives them this rule that they can’t watch RA films because she views that as cheating, which I’m totally fine with it’s whatever, although I have always thought that the rule was kind of funny but I have never told her that. That is until now.
While in the middle of telling me that she was planning to tell her boyfriend this I say “You know I have always thought that was kind of funny that you have made that a rule.”
At first, she seemed to react normally to it but within 5 minutes she was bursting into tears saying how I was “a horrible person for saying that” and went on a long story about how she was hurt throughout her childhood and this rule is a result of that, (none of which I knew about) and afterwards she left my house. When I tried to text or call her, she would not pick up at all.
Am I the horrible person for making such a joke of what I saw at the time as a harmless joke?