My husband has been calling me horrible names for years, but just recently he started calling me “Big D” like almost on a daily basis and he thinks it’s absolutely hilarious.
As dumb as this sounds I cannot stand it. I’ve begged him not to call me any sort of names but THAT specifically. I think it’s extremely disrespectful and rude and just completely unnecessary. I’ve literally begged for it to stop.
Today, he called me Big D and was upset that I ignored him. I said, “I’m not going to respond to you calling me that, okay Tiny D?” And he told me to get the F out of his house.
I told him something along the lines of “I’ve genuinely asked you nicely to stop calling me Big D and you haven’t cared a single time how bad it hurts my feelings, so I’m just going to go ahead and do the same thing to you and you’ll get your feelings hurt real quick okay tiny d?” All he had to say in response was “you’re a b”
Am I really the b here or is he butthurt that I’m giving him a taste of his own problems?