My gf is speaking to a new man, and she claims its innocent but he has said some questionable things like
“he doesn’t love u”, “he is so lucky to have you”, “Never let anyone say your not beautiful”
Here is the story:
1) Am I wrong for letting her know that I really hate the idea of her speaking to this person. / Potentially getting my partner to block him
2) I could be overthinking this and be completely wrong and mis reading the situation.
Ok, people of internet, I’m really torn!
So my partner cheated on me 2, maybe more times between October – January 2021-22.
She did this via fb and discord. We’re over it, we got through it and I’m rebuilding trust
Problem is, we both work, we have two kids, and well, life is hard. She wants attention, and a lot of it, any free time I have, she wants.
So I give her 1-2 hours a day, however, if I wanna wind down, the game before bed or w/e she don’t like it.
Not much I can do tbh, at that point, because I’m literally ready for bed.
Anyways, fast forward to now, she’s speaking to men, and the surface of it all seems innocent. If I read the messages, or hear what she tells me about the guy, it’s fine.
Btw, she needs this guy because I don’t give her enough attention. (her words)
But she’s voicing and messaging all day long, and she keeps saying “ill block him if u want”
But you know that’s a trick, right? The next thing will be “YOU WANNA CONTROL MY LIFE” etc. But I can’t be happy with this guy in my life and here’s why.
When they met, she said something about me to him,
“Him: he doesn’t love you”, He said this in response to my partner telling him, the lack of attention I give.
“He is so lucky to have you”
“Never let anyone say you’re not beautiful”
AITA IF I was to push her to block him? I am getting so many red flags but I really don’t want be giving into my paranoia, or to be a control freak partner.
He is constantly messaging her throughout the day too. I just don’t like it, but if I’m the problem, I have to somehow get over it.