So basically, most of my friends still have a curfew, although their parents let them go out but not till very late, they mostly stay at home but I’m not having a curfew, which means I (17M) don’t hang out with them as much as I did before and I don’t go out as much as I did before.
So my mother arranged a small vacation to the beach and we stayed at a hotel for a few days, there would be five of us going, Me, My mother(49), my aunty(50), my cousin (17F),and my grandmother (69), the thing is, I feel kind of uncomfortable considering the room isn’t small, but it would be a bit packed for all five of us, and I will be the only guy there.
I won’t lie, the only person besides my mother I’m really close to there is my grandmother. So I just felt kind of uncomfortable going, my mother is already going through enough and I really don’t wanna burn her out because I could tell she was when I told her, and my sister said I was being selfish because they arranged this up for me.
My father is on my side and said he understands why I would be uncomfortable, so we could just have a man weekend where we would do some BBQ and fishing, while my mother had a ladies’ weekend with her family, I feel more comfortable with that than the trip to the beach.
So should I tell my mother beach is for girls thingy and I don’t feel like going or just hold it and go to the beach?
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