My older sister has a history of unhealthy behaviour and has been arrested a lot of times. She has done many things to my brothers and me that hurt us. Even Disappears for periods of time and shows up when she needs something.
My sister has been gone and out of contact with us for a year and when she came back she brought a fiance with her. She was really charming and nice to us which she is normally only like that when she needs or wants something from us.
When I met her fiance I realised he was a generally nice person who made a good amount of money, my brothers and I all thought it is best he knows an important part about my sister before she marries him, which is her being a “siao person”.
When we told him he did not believe us and went to get our sister she asked him to wait in the car and started crying saying she is a changed person and she believes she was a bit “siao” and said sorry for all the times she mistreated us and also said she does not understand why we would try to ruin the happiness in her life.
My brother felt bad and apologised to her and even said he will go speak to her fiance to take it back, I told my brother we should not because we were being honest and he said everyone deserves a second chance.
My mom does not think she changed but believes it was not our business to get involved in their personal relationship like that.
I don’t believe anyone can change from being a “siao person” and “siao person” don’t feel real connections so why should we watch someone go fall into our sisters trap, I mean we all know what she likes and how she treats people like objects.
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