I am 24 years old(I am autistic) and my sister is 21 also called her “Dani”. We both live with our parents at the moment. My family and i wanted some Ice cream and my mom had said that if I and my sister pick it up she will buy it (I can’t drive). So I told my sister this and she was excited.
My sister said “my friend is on her way I want to wait for her” So I responded, “by the time we get back she will be here so you don’t have to wait”
And my sister agreed with me on that. So I get ready then My sister all of the sudden said she wanted to wait for her friend and I restated that when we get back she would be here we just talked about it. She didnt care so I just grabbed the keys and went to the car.
The whole car ride (her friend is in the car) she was doing at LEAST 20 over the speed limit. She speeds into the parking lot and I make a comment of what do you want.
“Nothing” I leave the car, grabbing the ice cream and head back into the car and ask her if she wants to know why I was upset. She says sure and so I tell her why. She ignores me so I continue She THEN speaks up and says “I don’t want to talk about this right now”
So I say: “ok I didn’t know” So I tell her she When she passes a car who was going the speed limit she speeds up from about 25KMH to about 40-50KMH.
I’m starting to have a panic attack so at some point I beg her to slow down, she was going 70 in a 50.I told her I was having a panic attack and to please slow down.After she passed another car she starts to speed up which ends up causing me to shut down and start crying.Soon enough we’re home, she drops her friend at their car in front of our house and speeds into the drive way where she parks the car and storms inside.
At this point I am having a Massive panic attack. I text my family ice cream is here. After a few minutes my mom comes down stairs, helps me calm down and then we eat our ice cream. I go up stairs when my dad calls me into my sisters room.
Dad: so OP what happened
Me: I tell him everything that happened
Dad: ok Dani what is your side
Sister: well she yelled at me for no reason and I got upset
Dad:Dani what are your issues with OP
Sister: she brings up somthing thay happened in 2016 where’s shes still mad about it
Me: I’ve said sorry for it
My dad cuts in and says I don’t need to apologize anymore for things like that.
I then start telling my sister how she never says sorry when she hurts me. I explain to her about the speeding andhow i begged her to slow down and she ignored me. My dad let’s me go back to my room. Then Like 20 minutes later he tells me how he talked to my sister and If she ever speeds like that again she’s not going to be using the cars. My sister has apologized but right now I just don’t know if I can forgive her because of how she hurt me.