My boyfriend (28M) and I (21F) have been together for about 6 months now, but we were FWB for about a year and a half before that.
We’ve also been living together for about 5 months now and this is my first time ever living with a partner. I’m currently 32 weeks pregnant with our son.
Recently, Ive getting after my boyfriend about him helping me with the nursery.
There still so much left to do and he promised me weeks ago that this is something we would work on together. I’m the only one that’s done anything for it so far and honestly I’m the only one that’s done anything baby related throughout my pregnancy.
When he asked me to move in, he made a lot of promises that he hasn’t kept up with.
Well Thursday was just my boiling point. I had a rough day at work, we work together at a restaurant. He got to leave at like 9 and I was working until 2 and didn’t get home until 3AM.
Since I knew my boyfriend would be getting home earlier, I asked if he could wash some new clothes we got for the baby and put together a dresser we got delivered weeks ago. He said he would and when I got home, I saw the bag of baby clothes still on the kitchen counter and the box with the dresser unopened.
My boyfriend was in the living room playing games on his computer, which he’d probably been doing since he got off of work.
I was going to let it go, but then I went to get my dinner from the fridge. I’ve been craving food, so I wanted to heat up some leftovers I made yesterday. When I opened the fridge and pulled out the baking dish, it was completely empty. So not only did he eat my dinner, but he also put the dirty dish back in the fridge.
I asked him why he ate my dinner when he knew I wanted it and he told me to F off because he was playing his game and he ignored me every time I tried to talk to him.
So I took my phone out, and shut off the internet using the app. He absolutely lost it, as it scared me, and I asked him to leave.
He called me all kinds of names and said I was ungrateful and that he should break up with me over something like that.
I really didn’t think he would blow up like that, I was just frustrated and tried to get his attention. He left that night and stayed at his brothers place. He said he won’t go home yet and I apologized. I feel like I crossed a line I didn’t know would just make everything fall apart. I feel like he really does hate me now. I don’t know how else to apologize.