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MAN HAS TRUST ISSUE WITH HIS RELATIONSHIP BUT DONT WANT TO LET GO

I am a 20(M) and my GF is 19 (F)

I and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 2 years. Around 3 months of us dating and I disappeared for 2 weeks to handle my own issues (parents divorcing), I came back and I knew the relationship I had with her was going to end I shouldn’t have ignored her but she took me back.

Around 8 months of dating I found out she cheated on me with one of her friends for months before I even disappeared for those 2 weeks. I found out by looking on her computer that they were messaging each other she sent pics and messages that weren’t appropriate for friends.

I took her back because she made a mistake as I did and we continued our relationship now we are almost at 2 years. We are constantly fighting about stuff and that doesn’t make any sense. Every time we fight now we always bring up breaking up.

This is the main reason we fight a lot. We currently stay with her parents who are getting a divorce. I want to move out even though I know it’s not the right decision financially but I want to be able to have my own place And deal with my own issues, she doesn’t agree.

I recently found out a “friend” of mine asked for her number and she said no but something doesn’t feel right. It is still fresh and they still messaging without me knowing but nothing has happened. I don’t know if this is just me overthinking about what happened in the past.

I can clearly see I don’t make her happy anymore but I love her. I don’t want to leave her but I think having a lot of trust issues in this relationship. I try my best every day to try and calm my mind down so I don’t stress her out even more than I do. I feel like anything I say or do is just making her hate me more and more. Should I just end this relationship? am I mean for making her feel stuck in this relationship.

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