Lusting after a male colleague
Started a new job this year, best move I’ve made as the last job I was in was full of toxicity. Everything was going great, brilliant team, absolutely adore all of my colleagues, we all get on very well.
One in particular, one of the few male colleagues, stands out to me. I find myself getting kind of nervous around him, almost like when I was in school and fancied someone.
Now, I’m in a relationship and have been for nearly a decade. He is married, but recently broke up with his wife.
I feel guilty because I want him, but I’m happy where I am and I’m too scared to say anything to him, I also don’t think it’s appropriate given his situation, but I can’t help but lust after him. What do I do?
- Crushes on colleagues are pretty normal. Enjoy the fantasy, keep it to yourself, and let it pass.
- Here is the best advice you will never take. Don’t shit where you eat…feel free to not take it like most of the population.