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Emotionally unavailable mumPardon for my long rant.My mum is in her 60s, and dad is in his 70s. They live together but fights (quarrels) so every now and then that it spills over to their children (me, my sister...

I’m someone who experienced a glow up (from a 2 to 9 according to my friend). The difference between dating as a 2 and a 9 is HUGE.As a 2 I had guys who I matched with straight...

So I work at a grocery store as a cashier. We have several managers who work here but I'm focusing on one we'll call Becky.Becky isn't the best manager. She is rude to customers and she spends most of...

This point of this post is not to start a war between those with children and childfree people, but to facilitate geniune discussion for those who are on the fence, or couples who have differing opinions on children.My partner...

My older brother lives with me. He's never really been "good at life".He's had a few jobs here and there, but mostly just stuff like supermarket, McDonald's, and he delivered pizzas or doing GrabFood for about a...

How to stop MIL coming to visit EVERY DAY?Live by MIL, literally around the corner from us. (Bad move I know!)For the past 5 years she’s been round nearly every single day for hours at a time. I didn’t...

Why do financial advisers try so hard to be the “ideal” person?Minus the “I’m here not to sell you anything but I’m here to share with you” and when you reject their approach they kept pushing you to set...

Should I abandon ship?I just got a new job. During interviews, they mentioned that we are allowed to WFH 3 times a week. After I joined, this policy at department-level kept changing to progressively reduce the number of WFH...

how long to stay in the social work organisationI recently became a staff in an SSO few months ago. The demographic of the clients that we work with are very challenging. Most of the time I go home feeling...

This will be long but I will try to shorten it as much as possible. I met my husband in 2019; things progressed very quickly as we were both looking for something serious.After a few weeks of dating...