best friend’s new boyfriend touched me. Bestfriend is taking his side.
I remember the moment like it was yesterday. I never wanted to tell anyone that I was molested. The shame and guilt that I felt were overwhelming
A couple of weeks ago I made a post about this. Long story short, my best friend’s boyfriend kept groping me at a new years eve party.
I felt very sad and didn’t have much energy, but I did talk to my bestfriend as most people suggested.
She basically said that it was impossible as I am a A cup.
Well, she didn’t answer for a week, but when she did she basically blamed me. She tells me I should have said something (I did.) She said it’s just his kind of humour, that he has trouble reading expressions.
She said he thought I was joking when I said “no” and “stop,” because I still had fun at the party. She said the accusations I made made her sad.
I feel so so betrayed. I feel like my bestfriend is victim blaming me. I don’t really know what to do from here, I think I need a break from her. I didn’t think she would react this way, and I don’t think I’m in the wrong for talking to her about it. My heart is broken though.
I tried to tell my other friends, but they didn’t believe me either. They were sure that I was just looking for attention and that I was making it all up. I was so embarrassed and ashamed that I couldn’t bring myself to tell anyone else. I felt like I was all alone in the world and that no one would ever believe me.