My (22M) boyfriend is mad at (20F) me because I don’t want to sleep with him.
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We’ve been dating 1 month and also I’m a virgin, he’s definitely not. I think it’s too early but he tells me he needs it.
we couldn’t get along so he doesn’t even let me touch him, not even talking about kissings and stuff.
We’re in my home alone and I feel embarrassed because of this topic. Him and I had oral once and it was good but I still feel ashamed. Also he offered me trying it without a condom
Basically, he wants to sleep with me and I need more time, he doesn’t want to wait but he wants to stay with me. So, we can’t find a compromise, what would you recommend?
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P.s. ever since he is mad at me, he’s now down for a platonic relationship!!!
Netizens’ comments
- Leave him. He doesn’t respect you or your boundaries.
- He can wait but he doesn’t want to. Men will not die if they don’t have it, it won’t even make them sick. He wants to punch you v card and move on. If he needs it so bad, he has a hand.
- Manipulative and pressuring you into something you aren’t ready for. He is crap, find someone who cares about your feelings above their own.
- If he can’t wait and you are not ready, you are incompatible. If he isn’t willing to wait, you should break up with him.