My boyfriend (26m) always gets upset when I (25f) don’t pleasure him after he takes me out.
Hi all. I’ve been with my boyfriend for two years. I’ve just realized that he gets angry when I don’t get intimate with him after he does something nice for me, like takes me out to eat or to see a movie.
This makes me feel weird because it’s almost like I have to pay him back for doing something nice? aren’t relationships supposed to be a two way street?
Today we went to see a movie and I usually park at his place and he drives us to the location. I hugged and kissed him and he goes “you don’t want to go to my place?”
I said “Oh no I can’t today I told you my brother is flying in tonight so I want to be home before he gets there” and he got super mad and starting getting snappy with me and literally walked away.
I texted him when I got home saying how I didn’t appreciate the way he acted. He responds with “I took you to the movies and made sure you had a good day and you couldn’t even give me 10 minutes after?”
Why do men always want us to pay them back after they do something nice for us? Why can’t we just go to the movies and end the night with a hug and kiss?
Why does everything have to be obscene every single day? That hurt my feelings and made me feel like he just wanted me for my body and that’s why he hung out with me today.
I do satisfy his needs 95% of the time but sometimes I just want to chill. Am I wrong for this? I’m a human being and not just a piece of meat.