BF ANGRY WITH GF’S CATS, CALLS HER A “CRAZY CAT LADY” & WANTS HER TO GET RID OF THEM

Bf(21m) mad that I(20f) have three cats

I(20f) have three cats, my boyfriend(21m) is mad. My most recent cat I got was a Bengal cat. He now says I have too much and I’m becoming a crazy cat lady and I need to get rid of one.

I like all my cats and I don’t want to get rid of any of them. But the fact I don’t want to get rid of them makes him say that I love the cats more than him.

For some context I don’t live with him. i make my own income. He’s freaking out the new cat that I got, even tho he said I could have it.

Now he’s saying that he said that out of niceness and I should’ve known to not take him seriously. What should I do?

Netizens’ comments

1. He doesn’t live with you, he doesn’t pay for these cats, it’s none of his business, and he even said he’s fine with another cat and he’s goes and turns it around? Sounds like he’s being a little bitch baby. Who is he to tell you to get rid of a cat that he doesn’t even live with or take care of.
2. Sounds like he needs to be rehomed to a family without any other pets due to resource guarding.
3. It’s your place and you are free to choose your pets. It’s not his place to tell you to get rid of one of them. Once you took them, you took responsibility for their lifetime.
   Get rid of the bf, he seems to be more trouble than it’s worth.
4. He said you could have it?
   why do you need his permission to keep a cat on your own income?
   HUGE RED FLAG
5. This is a very weird and controlling of him. Keep the cats and get rid of the man.