Okay so I’m(23F) dating a guy(26M) that for the most part is absolutely awesome.
The issue is he gets very talkative and frisky when he drinks. This normally isn’t an issue because we normally drink at home or if we are in public I cut him off after 2 margaritas. Usually, we can head home after that and he just talks and talks until we get home.
Neither of us drink a lot but do enjoy having a drink or two every now and then.
He booked a hotel for our anniversary, he was there earlier and set up some decorations for me and by the time I got there it turned from an anniversary at the hotel to a boy party in a hotel room.
Apparently, he started drinking and inviting his friends and by the time I’m there he was pretty drunk. He was very loud about wanting S and was trying to strip me in front of everyone.
I finally got him chilled out enough to say my goodbyes and got him in the car so we could go home.
The entire ride home he was constantly trying to get me out of my clothing. When we got home he started getting sick so I just stripped him and got him in the shower then got him in bed. I had a whole trail of puke to clean so I was less than happy.
Today he doesn’t really remember much and he wakes up thinking his still at the hotel. His best friend called me to apologize and said he should have cut him off knowing that it was our anniversary hotel booking.
I am very annoyed and embarrassed. I talked to him about it. He has a hangover and is adamant it will never happen again. He has also apologized.
I want to still be annoyed and I’m rather angry but I feel like I am being harsh by continuing to hold on to it.
I kind of feel that the hotel booking has been wasted and the anniversary that was supposed to be sweet became a nightmare.
How do I let it go when it was so embarrassing for me?