My f21 boyfriend M22 has recently become interested in my glasses, either by trying them on or hiding them from to time as a ‘prank’. I need my glasses all the time to do basically everything.
With my level of myopia, I am practically blind.
Days ago he wanted to try what it was like to shower while wearing glasses and took them while I was asleep. he, unfortunately, dropped them and caused them to break by stepping on them in the tub. I found out after I woke and freaked out. He tried to calm me down but I started arguing with him about touching my glasses but he said he was just doing an “experiment” and didn’t mean for them to break.
I told him to pay me for new ones but he thought that was ridiculous. we started yelling at each other and he said he had to go to school and the argument continued later. He keeps avoiding to pay and is saying it was just an accident, and that I had no right to ask him to pay me for new ones and I should stop pushing.
Here are what netizens think:
- Are u sure ur bf is 22? He sounds like 5
- I still don’t understand the “experiment”. What problem was he trying to solve? If it was solely about “What is it like to wear glasses in the shower?”
- He sounds like a child.
- I think a lot of people don’t fully appreciate that glasses are a disability aid. You are unable to see without them. And they are expensive AF. He should have never been handling your glasses to begin with, but choosing to do so meant that he was accepting responsibility for their care. He should 100% pay for them to be replaced, and then I would seriously reconsider your relationship.