Boyfriend (24M) and I (24F) share a computer.
Yesterday, he got an email notification for a Instagram update from an account I am unaware of with a very lewd username. This alarmed me. I know a lot of his passwords (as he knows mine) and I tried logging into it. What I saw was horrifying.
Dozens of lewd videos and pictures of himself (naked, doing things to himself, sending people messages like come ride it). Tons of people sending the same back to him. I dug further and found he had all sorts of websites (OF, AFF, etc) where he posts pictures and videos of himself.
We live together and spend so much time together that I cannot imagine he would be out cheating on me. When I confronted him he said his info was hacked in a data leak years back and that people have been stealing things from his accounts and making fake accounts with that material.
I find that incredibly hard to believe. I thought we had a really good relationship and this puts so much into question; could this actually be a data hack? I have no real grasp on whether or not someone can steal that much stuff. When asked, he said he likes to take videos of himself but never shares it; he claims someone went into his Instagram and stole the info and made another account with it.
Additionally, I asked him to look me in the eyes and promise he was not lying and he did, however, I do not believe him. IDK what to do. I am scared. I am embarrassed. I am heartbroken. I am lost.
Here are what netizens think:
- This sounds so unlikely as to be laughable.
- No, your instincts are right and this is not a hack. It sounds like he’s to the point of leading a double life. I would move on.
- He is 10000% full of S
- How long have you been with him? How old is he claiming these videos are?