A Singaporean girl recently posted her experience with her boyfriend after she realised that her boyfriend’s d*ck was too small. This only happened when her boyfriend suggested they watched p*rn together.
Here is the full story.
My boyfriend is a heavy p*rn user and he says it’s normal to frequently get off to p*rn even when in a relationship.
I was perfectly fine with it all along because men are all h**nyat a basal level anyway, until he started suggesting that we watch p*rn together as part of foreplay, or as an alternative activity when we’re bored at home.
I resisted because I personally didn’t like the idea of watching strangers have s*x with closeups of their g*nitals, but after weeks of “encouragement” I finally relented and watched a p*rn piece in proper for the first time in my life.
I can’t say that I found it arousing because the moaning was stupid and fake as hell and they kept zooming in on the lady’s nethers which aren’t appealing to me at all. But he likes it and I love him so I have gone with it a few times.
However the reason I’m posting this confession is because p*rn made me realise that my bf’s d*ck is… Actually on the short side. I won’t state numbers but then I started thinking, what if the moans weren’t THAT fake, the ladies actually have a better time than I usually do because male p*rn actors have long and girthy d*cks?
It’s been 2 weeks since we last watched p*rn together, but I can’t get rid of this new “p*nis envy”(?) feeling, wishing that my bf was better endowed. Since then it has significant impacted my enjoyment in bed because damn, it really is smaller than the global average. And no wonder it slips out often, iykwim.
How can I overcome this? I mean yeah s*x isn’t everything. BUT my bf is really s*xual and s*x is everything to him so I kinda have to repeatedly face this fact. He also has the typical ego and I don’t think he’d appreciate his gf hinting in any way that his dick less than adequate.
And while I know I’d be flooded with all the fragile male comments in the vein of “I bet your boobs also smaller than average bla bla”, please note that I never cared about his d*ck size UNTIL he kept pushing me to start watching p*rn with him.
I know the best way is to talk to him and suggest ways to spice up our s*x lives, but how can I do this tactfully? He is confirmed going to be against things like me using s*x toys.
(note to admin: this is something I genuinely need help with so please feel free to censor any part of it, as long as it is able to get posted. Appreciate it.)