My boyfriend forgot to pick me up
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I called him 10+ times last night at 7:30 when he was supposed to pick me. I stood in the rain for 20 minutes then ended up getting a $50 cab home.
I didn’t hear from him until 6:30am today with a “sorry, I was taking a nap and didn’t wake up”. I guess he was dead drunk.
I’m so done. I feel so unimportant to him. He doesn’t even ask me how I am or care about my hobbies. I’m not perfect but I deserve a little respect.
Works gonna be awkward but I don’t want to talk to him. I just feel so defeated.
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Netizens’ comments
- Nah, he’s a jerk, I mean flip it around, would you ever leave him stranded somewhere like that? I wouldn’t, you would set an alarm or something if you thought you might fall asleep. Plus as soon as you woke up you’d be panicked wanting to contact the person, apologising and seeing if they got home ok.
I mean if your relationship was otherwise good and this was just an out of character event then you couldforgive it, but it doesn’t sound that way. - You mean your ex boyfriend, right? He sounds destructively self-absorbed. That’s awful he stood you up for getting wasted. He doesn’t have his priorities straight.
- Your boyfriend forgot to pick you up… doesn’t sound like a boyfriend to me… sounds like a boy.
- I know people I don’t even like that I treat better than that. (Maybe a me thing) but my point being you deserve better.
- Time for you to move on to greener pastures. You deserve more than how he’s be been treating you. How he conveniently forgot to pick you up, yells loud and clear “I don’t give a shit”. Kick his ass to the curb and go find yourself a partner who will love and appreciate you. You owe it to yourself to leave this relationship.
- This situation makes it sound like you’re not even on the list of his priorities, nevermind at the top. Ouch. I hope this isn’t a theme in the relationship and if it is, I hope you move on soon. Xo