F21 My boyfriend M27 keeps walking in on me when I’m using the bathroom to poop
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 months and had noticed after we were living together that he’d frequently walk into the bathroom dude i was on the toilet.
I started locking the door, but he would unlock it saying he needed to brush his teeth or he forgot something, etc (some other excuse).
I asked him to respect my privacy and not to walk in on me. We talked about it and he agreed.
Now, he hasn’t come into the bathroom since we spoke, but ive noticed how he’ll often rush into the bathroom after I pooped to try and smell.
He has been subtle about this, but it’s made me feel violated and totally self-conscious. Im not sure if he’s into that type of thing and he’s keeping it a secret, but I need advice here on how to proceed.
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Pretty clear that he’s at least poo curious. I would call him out and demand an answer for his behavior. It’s a hard conversation so it’s ok to feel intimidated by the idea of confronting him. I don’t think you’d be asking for advice if you were willing to participate in his k!nk. Which leads me to think that you want to break up with him over this and just need people to reinforce your decision.
I’m concerned for you based on the amount of red flags in such a short post: Your age gap is a red flag, mostly because you are so young. Moving in together that quickly is a major red flag. Him not respecting your boundaries is a red flag. His perverted behavior is bothering you and that doesn’t seem to bother him is a red flag.