I’m lying in bed with my boyfriend, both of us exhausted from the passionate night we just shared.
As I was laying down there trying to catch my breath, I realize that something isn’t quite right.
Bf was digging his nose with the same fingers he used on me
I look over at my boyfriend and he’s casually digging around his nose with his fingers, the same fingers that he had just used to pleasure me.
I was totally disgusted. I mean, how could he be so comfortable to do something like that? It’s not only unsanitary, it’s also kind of creepy.
Then I realize that this isn’t an isolated incident. Whenever we have intimate moments, my boyfriend has a habit of digging his nose right after.
I’m starting to think that this is more than just a hygiene issue. Is he actually getting some kind of pleasure out of it? Is it some kind of weird ‘craving’?
Or is it just a gross habit that he’s developed over time and doesn’t even realize he’s doing it?
I’m not sure what to do. On the one hand, I’m really grossed out by the whole thing and I don’t think I can continue having intimate moments with him if this is a regular thing.
On the other hand, I don’t want to bring it up and make it into some big deal because I don’t want to embarrass him or make him feel bad about himself.
Decided to let it be and just observe first
So for now, I’ve decided to just let it be. I’m going to try my best to ignore it and just focus on enjoying the time we spend together.
However, I’m also going to keep an eye on the situation and try to figure out the root of the problem.
If I can figure out why he’s doing it, then maybe I can help him find a way to stop. Until then, I’m just going to take things one day at a time and hope that he eventually stops on his own.