Im 22 and my boyfriend is 4 years older than me and we have been daring for 6 months now. We met through an app during lockdown, he moved to my home during this time as my mom is practically always not home and now he’s away from family and friends. He only really has me. As you can imagine, this makes my heart heavy with anxiety.
Recently, he’s having some serious problems in his family and I’m here to support him but when I’m already thinking about ending things because it’s no longer an enjoyable relationship for me, I can’t bring myself to give him the love and affection he needs right now.
Due to this I was so nervous and lost on what to do that I broke up (without success) with him during this bad time.
He kept saying that we have a really good relationship and kept trying to convince me that I was only focusing on the bad stuff, he was crying a lot then he wouldnt eat because if he did he would throw up. He told me in the past that he struggled a lot with mental illness and even thoughts of self harm. I asked, please promise me you are going to be ok, and you won’t do anything stupid, he said he couldn’t promise me that. With all this in mind, and him being here alone, it gets impossible for me to do it.
This is not my first try. I really don’t know what to do. I think he is addicted to me.
Then I found out that he has been taking a long time in the toilet, I climb the toilet’s window from the laundry area and I saw a pink app which looks kind of like Tinder.
Is he really finding an excuse to find other girls.