How do you guys deal with the insecurity?
I am working in healthcare and this girl I’m seeing is a cute nurse colleague. In our field, some patients are (partly) naked due to their limited capacities/illnesses/procedures and the nurses have to physically handle them in their various degrees of undress.
If they were regular old patients I wouldn’t really care, but once in a while they have to go check or even adjust some young, fit guy’s D and it makes me feel weird and kinda jealous. Once I heard her talking with another nurse about if they needed to some procedure on a guy’s genitals and I was so disturbed I just pretended I didn’t hear them and quickly walked away. I mean I know it’s just part of the job – and maybe even hypocritical of me to say as someone in healthcare myself – but I can’t help but feel like nakedness is something sacred to be treasured and shared with a partner exclusively, but that some kind of innocence is lost here…
Here are what netizens think:
- I used to be a Nurse and seeing and washing naked ppl is an everyday thing. It’s like eating and shitting, I have worked with tons of nurses. Male and female. I know for sure we never had any fantasies or feelings towards naked patients. We have a nursing code of ethics to follow. Also don’t worry, male nurses will always take care of our female nurses whenever we know there is a patient who tries to be funny with any of our nurses. A job is a job. Nth more to eat into. We leave it behind the moment we walk out of the ward. So don’t over think and create problems in ur head that is not even there.
- I didn’t know the healthcare sector was accepting candidates with room temperature IQs.
- I didnt know that when/if u are sick yourself, u get to be fully clothed at all times and/or ur genetials got some special immunity and will never need medical attention.
- Hey, man, you just need to wake up and face the reality of being in the health care industry…that including female nurse need to handle an erected male organ .,. look at it as biological image rather than a sexual one ..is all in the mind and education , how ones perceive things ! LoL