Don’t give in easily ok. Stay true to yourself. I’m speaking from personal experience. I once had this bf who made me believe that I loved him very much and that he was the one for me. I never noticed the red flags when he avoided planning for the future with me all the time.
But I gave him my virginity anyway. He kept begging and i couldn’t say no anymore. After the deal, he became another person. He ignored my texts frequently, only making me happy when he wants S. When we finally broke up, I was so traumatised and upset, I couldn’t open up to anyone.
I felt like a cheap chicken and the most sinful person on earth.
I really let down my parents and myself. To me, it wasn’t just losing my virginity. I felt like I lost my values, beliefs and trust. So please, if you’re not ready don’t go for it.
I spent almost 1.5 years trying to walk out of that hole my ex threw me in. Don’t follow my footsteps…
Here are what netizens think:
Aiya don’t blame guy or girl la, both gender also got their own set of problems.
I encounter this kind of thing before but its a girl she behaves all sweet to me, just because she wants it. But end of the day she picked a rich guy. and uses me.