SA. Need to ask everyone’s opinion here. Also long story but please do read.
So a guy (Let’s call him Matt) and his gf (Let’s call her Jenn) lives together. They’ve been doing good together, until one day, they argue about going to a night club. Let’s just say Matt doesn’t want Jenn to go to a night club cause he’s worried about her safety.
But Jenn insist, saying she’ll be just fine. Matt still wouldn’t allow it. So they argued a lot. Jenn however, always find a way to go to the club. Either by lying about her location, made excuses, or simply just wait for Matt to fall asleep early. Everytime Matt found out, he’ll get mad cause he’s so worried about her. Jenn however, continued to do this like more than 10 times, and got caught by Matt at least 7 times.
Matt is very forgiving, but even he has a limit. The only thing he doesn’t want Jenn to do is to go to a night club. That’s it. Nothing else. But Jenn didn’t care. Matt told her, that if she goes there again, one more time, the relationship is over. Jenn, thinking it’s just another chance, simply just go out anyways. She doesn’t care anymore.
Unfortunately for that night, after hours in the night club, she got R and SA by a guy there. She called Matt, crying, told him everything that happened. Matt immediately drove and picked her up, went to the hospital and police station immediately to make reports and gather all those evidence. Took hours,
but thankfully, the evidence gathered are clear, and the police said for now, they can go home while they go make an arrest on the suspect. It was very late night at that point.
Matt, however, drove Jenn back to her parents’ house. Jenn feeling confused and asked why. Matt said that he’s sorry about everything that happened to her and it’s not her fault, however, he’s a man of his word. He said that he did warned her that if she goes to the club one more time, the relationship is over. Regardless of what happens, even if she’s safe and nothing bad happen, the relationship is still over. Matt did say that if she needed help about the case, he’ll help. But that doesn’t mean he and Jenn are together.
He already packed every Jenn’s belongings from his house the moment she walked out to go to the club. All of it is in the car, and he carried it for her to her parents’. Jenn, crying and begging, asking him not to leave her and said she won’t do it again. Matt however, said that he has his limit too. And he said why does it need for this horrible thing to happen then only she’ll listen. Before he leaves, he told her again, that he’s sorry about what happened, and that if she needed any help with the case, he’ll help. But that’s it.
So, the question is, is Matt wrong for doing what he did in the end?