I wanna ask other ladies for their opinion.
It was my birthday last week my boyfriend of 2yrs told me he would cook a 3 course dinner for us.
I was actually really excited and thought it was romantic of him to do it. So on the day itself he asked me to go hangout with my friends so he can stay home and prepare the food and stuff right.
Fast forward to dinner time he sat me down and told me not to come into the kitchen cause he wants to surprise me then poured me a glass of wine while he prepared the appetiser. Then the main course and dessert. Food was good and i felt really happy. I cant explain the feeling lah but its not the same as eating in a restaurant.
Anyway after dinner he was cleaning up quickly threw the trash and we sat down to watch a movie. I was thirsty and went to the kitchen to get a drink and guess what i found on the floor beside the trash can.
A receipt from a restaurant with the food i just had for dinner! This means he didn’t actually cook it. He bought it and told me he made it. Now it makes sense why he didn’t want me in the kitchen or the house. He went out to buy the food and just reheated in a pan on the stove. My heart sank. Not because he didnt cook the food but because he lied saying he did. Why did he have to lie about this? I’m actually really sad that he wasn’t honest with me. He didn’t have to pretend he made it. I get it maybe he was trying to impress me but hello? Im already his gf he doesn’t have to impress me anymore.
If he made me spaghetti and meatballs i would have been very happy that he took the time to make something for me already. I don’t understand why he had to lie. He doesn’t know i found the receipt too. I just feel really cheated and lied to. How am I supposed to trust someone who would lie about these kinds of things? How should i confront him?
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