I (28f) caught my boyfriend (31m) hand in hand with a girl, we’ve been together for 3 months
Hello all, I caught my boyfriend holding hands with a girl yesterday when I was jogging around his neighborhood.
For the past one week, he’s been telling me that he’s busy at work. So, I trusted him and gave him the space so that he could be focused on his work.
Yesterday I made sure that I looked at him in the eye, and he also looked at me. I didn’t confront them, because I could barely feel my legs after witnessing that.
Not long after that, I texted him saying: “You know how much I trusted you…” And he hasn’t responded to my text whatsoever until now.
I am so disappointed that I couldn’t cry, because he’s been a very nice boyfriend to me, he treated me like a princess every time.
So the thing that just happened was absolutely out of my wildest imagination. I am wondering what’s going on through his head right now that he doesn’t even text me until now?
Do you think that he will somehow reaching out to me?
Netizens’ comments
- You sure you werent “the other woman”?
- (OP) Honestly at this point, I’m asking myself the same thing too. He moved here as an expat, so it seems possible. But I have my stuff at his place, so it should be pretty obvious if there’s any visitors to his place aside of me..
- He’s already gone. Block him and move on. If he was concerned, he would’ve told you it wasn’t what it looked like and made up excuses.
- Oof. Good thing you found out quite early. Imagine if you wasted 1-2 years not knowing.
- You should block him. It sounds like you were the affair partner and the woman you saw him with is his actual girlfriend.