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BF SO BAD IN BED THAT GF IS CONSIDERING CHEATING ON HIM SO SHE CAN BE SATISFIED

I love my boyfriend but he is very bad in bed.. Consumed with thoughts of cheating.

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Me (34F) and my boyfriend (35m) have a great relationship and connection, I love him and love spending time with him however, he sucks in bed.

I have a very very high libido, and his is okay but it just feels like we aren’t compatible. He’s a big guy, not well endowed, and plainly put just doesn’t “hit the right spot” for me. Ever.

He goes down on me but isn’t good at that and doesn’t really listen to my advice. Even when he fingers me he doesn’t listen and isn’t good at it.

I’ve tried to gently express the issue, but he seems to think that he is great and just because I come, that it’s great for me too.

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Lately I have been consumed with thoughts of cheating, I never have cheated and don’t plan to, but I don’t know what to do.

I don’t want to lose him because personality wise we are perfect.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Naw you need to be direct with him and not hint or be subtle. Tell him straight that he is bad, but you want to figure out how to make it better.
    The only way for this to happen is he needs to allow you to show him how to make it better for both of you. I have been there before and it can cause tension in the relationship and if he is a great guy, he will understand and work with you.
    Never stay with someone if they are only minimally meeting your wants and needs. It causes things to go down hill
  2. Don’t cheat, state the issue plainly of how you feel unsatisfied and what he could be doing to improve that (maybe not the well endowed part, he can’t change that so it would do nothing but be hurtful) and stress that he needs to listen. Make sure he is aware it is a serious discussion and important to you. Be aware it may take some time to adjust.
    But if things don’t improve and you still feel an urge to cheat then just break up. If he is an amazing person you don’t want to lose then he doesn’t deserve that. Beyond him it’s disrespectful to yourself. Better then to break up and realize that love and personality aren’t the only things you require for a successful relationship.
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