Not sure if this is the right place, so please feel free to redirect me if I’m in the wrong place.
After a month of colds, sinus infections and we get didn’t spend much time alone together. It’s two days before I ovulate and my boyfriend and I did it without ‘rubber’.
I insist that he should wear one but he somehow convinced me to not wear it and said that he will not finish inside. He said that many couples try for years without success and we will definitely be not so suay.
It was just one time and I felt that it will never happen to me but my nightmares came through.
My period stopped coming and I was stressed and finally had the courage to buy a test kit.
We bought two just in case, So the first one came out positive and so did the second one. We are really lost and have no idea what to do.
Ever since it happened, my bf has been distanced almost as if he wants to run away without wanting to be responsible.
While we aren’t actively trying nor are we financially capable to get married and unable to afford an HDB.
I’m more curious if anyone did get pregnant from that one time in two weeks because I don’t really understand how it can happen just one time. I know of some couples who try for months without success.
We revealed it to our parents and after a big hoo-hah we are going for regular checkups at the hospital. Guess what?
ITS A TWIN. I knew that there were twins in my boyfriends family and now we are twice as stress as we calculated and barely able to feed one child. How are we going to feed two.
I know a lot of people will be blaming me for allowing it to happen. Are there any financial aids out there that might be able to help us?