A man has shared his frustration on NUSWhisper Facebook page after his girlfriend refused to give him any mouth action.
According to him, he has been together with his girlfriend for 2 years and they had just engaged in intercourse. However, when he asked her girl for some mouth action she refused as she thinks that mouth is only used for ingestion of water and food.
The man felt extremely frustrated as he is the only person in his group of friends that did not get any mouth action from his girlfriend. To encourage his girlfriend he even went online to find articles about the benefits of “mouth action” for her reading.
However, it is no use and he felt bloody dumb if he becomes the only man who did not get any “mouth action”.
In his post:
“I have been in a relationship with my GF for 2 years now. This is my first relationship and it is also her first one too. We got along pretty well but there were the usual fights. I would usually be the one giving in most situation. I have been very patient with her.
She did not want to have sex so I did not put any pressure. However, recently, she herself asked if we could do it. We were fine for a couple of sessions until the one where I asked if she could use her mouth. She refused and I did not force her at that time. However, later I realised that she doesn’t want to do it because she thinks it is dirty and the mouth is only ingestion of food or water.
I tried explaining to her, showed online articles and showed videos to prove that it is normal. I even went to the extent of washing and soaking in the soap in front of her. The funny thing is that I had used my mouth to pleasure her so many times before but she never brought it up. I tried asking her so many times but she just refuses. To be clear, I only ask her but every time she refuses, I don’t force her and I just back off. I tried to discuss with her openly and honestly that it is something important to me but no progress.
I suggested maybe we could see a psychologist or something but again, she said no. Ok, I know I sound like a jerk but you have to think a little from my point of view. I have dreamt of this for so many years. I have been hearing my friends talking doing it for so many years and when it is my turn, it doesn’t happen. It is such a normal that I never expected anyone does not want to do it. It is extremely frustrating especially because I love her so much.
I know I need to be more accepting of her views and I have been for almost everything except this. I really don’t want her to do it feeling forced. I have tried so many things to make the act seem clean or more comfortable for her.
Imagine this, if I actually marry her, I am going to be the only husband in the world who has never gotten it. That sounds so bloody dumb! Please tell me a solution where both I and my GF can win.”
