My boyfriend (24 M) invites his friends over to MY home(24 F) and makes me feel bad.
The title says it all, it is MY unit that my parents have rented FOR me. He is basically living here rent free and contributes just a little bit.
No I am not okay with this and has communicated this to him multiple times. He has this friend that he invites over and that friend basically just crashes over in my home, when I was gone on holiday and I just came back few days ago.
He started saying “you are so isolated you never have anyone over, I am a sociable person and like having people over”
I was like I’m sorry but this is MY apartment? He started trying to make me feel bad and saying I don’t even invite any of my friends over and said I’m isolated, what is wrong with me wanting my own personal space?
My house is my safe space ISN’T it? Worst part is, he doesn’t even pay rent so I don’t even know where the entitlement is coming from.
Him and his friend do nothing but smoke cigarettes and drink at my house and he has the audacity to say I’m a negative person and this is no big deal.
I tried kicking him out when I came back but he said he doesn’t have a place to go to atm and I should have told him earlier.
I want to call the police but there’s just so much at stake and with the police it’s a long process so idk.