BF WENT LUPSUP MASSAGE TO GET HAPPY ENDING, SAY IT’S NOT CHEATING, JUST PART OF MASSAGE

My (f24) bf (m23) had a happy ending massage. Thinks it’s ok. 3 year relationship

So basically he went to a sleazy massage place for a massage and the girl offered him a happy ending….which he accepted. I dont think this is something he normally does. He did tell me about it but he thinks that there is nothing wrong in what he did.

He seems think that this is OK and it’s with no feelings and was just part of the massage.

Is it just me? Or is this not the case? Should I be pushing back on this or not. We’ve been together 3 years and it’s been good all around.

Is this something which should be considered relationship ending? Or am I thinking this is more than it actually is? Thanks in advance.

Netizens’ comments

1. I think you should give this relationship a happy ending tbh
2. Lol he’s openly arguing that its not cheating? He has a low opinion of you if that’s the case
3. It’s cheating and the fact that he thinks it’s okay shows that you each have very different values. Ask him if you had a similar experience with a male masseuse, would he be okay with that.
4. Unless this is something you personally think is totally fine, and had discussed it ahead of time, this is absolutely cheating.
5. It’s cheating, because you’ve been operating under the assumption (as far as I can tell) of a standard monogamous relationship. And he absolutely knew what would happen at that parlor
6. He cheated , and he cant even own up to his mistake. I would say get rid of him but thats just me. I know there will be people who will be like oh maybe you can work on it and make it blah blah well that cant happen unless he admits that he made a big mistake , which he isnt.