Toxic boss?
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I’m working in the public sector, one that handles something that all of us have. I have a boss known as Ms W. I suspect that she has something against me, I don’t know why. I feel very uncomfortable whenever she talks to me, always staring at me. She will comment on my personal life and force her beliefs on me.
She would tell the rest of my team on things I have shared with her for people to comment and judge. I think she’s always gossiping with other bosses behind my back, about me sometimes.
She doesn’t even fight for me when people are faulting me for things that they have more fualt in. I feel that I’m not valued in her team and not listened to. I feel so distressed at work everyday with her as my boss.
Here are what netizens think:
- First thing is to stop sharing anything about yourself with her. Next, start looking for a transfer or another job. In the meantime, document any inappropriate behaviour on her part. But most importantly, learn to stand up for yourself and speak up if people are not treating you right. Yes, it’s not easy but it’s learned behaviour. Say things like “Do you think it’s appropriate to share my personal information with others?”. If you don’t learn then no matter where you go you will encounter such people. You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
- It’s got nothing to do with which sector you are working in. It’s the person you are working with, they exist in all different sectors. Go look for a new job if you are so unhappy, nothing to whine.
- Dude, doesnt matter what sector u in. There are bound to be bosses like her. Change job. All the best.
- Look for another job. You cannot change other people
- She must be single and old
- record audio evidence and report to PSD lor